Motivation Letter to Myself.

 

Hi Risma,

First thing first, I’m not here to tell you to love yourself and that everything is going to be okay – you already know that. But despite knowing it, you still feel shitty. I’m here to tell you to stop pouting. I’m here to tell you to wipe those tears off. I’m writing this to tell you it’s time to toughen up. That’s not to say you’re not already tough or that what you’re feeling is not normal. But you’ve worried enough. You’ve regretted enough. You’ve felt scared enough. It’s time for a change.

Let me start by saying that it's okay to feel like you aren't doing as well as you are supposed to. So, if you need to take a second to breathe, to cry, to put your head down, stare out a window or go for a walk. Just do that, without distractions. Thank God for everything that you are fortuned with, take a look at all the beautiful things around you, and be stress free for just a moment. It’s okay.

Figure out what you can change, and what you cannot. Most importantly, accept what you can’nt change. Become at peace with it, even if just for a brief moment. Say a prayer for your restless heart to be comforted knowing that God is with you in all things.

When you decide that you are ready to face the things that you can change, do it with 100% commitment. That doesn't mean 100% perfection. It's important to know the difference. Start by making a plan. Write it down in a planner, memorize it, put it on a Post-It on the mirror, do whatever makes it the easiest for you. Think through your plan logically, take into consideration your strengths and weaknesses. Remember to do the hard things first once in a while, the relief is sweet in the end. Make a checklist, use an App, tell your best friend about it so they can keep you accountable too. You are ready. You are young. You are smart. You are beautiful. You are worth.

Life is going to be hard. All these ups and downs you are experiencing are nothing compared to what you are about to experience. You haven’t even started yet. It’s okay to fail, it’s okay to fall from time to time but always learn how to get back up. Giving up is not an option. If you fall and get hurt, then stop for a while and take all your time to stand and to start again. And if you have to change, then change for the better. Get rid of all those negative thoughts and excess baggage that’s been weighing you down. Just let it go. Always keep moving forward, one step at a time. Keep going, keep progressing. You are not alone in this. Never stop trying to do things you love, never be afraid to experience something new. Don’t ever let somebody tell you, you can’t do anything. Never compare yourself to others and base your worth on what others tell you. You have to believe in yourself. Have confidence and faith. Know what is right from wrong and learn to say “No” without feeling guilty.

Don't take pity on yourself. Instead, work harder to make your situation better. Be happy. There are so many things to be thankful for. It’s okay to ask when you need help. Just be patient. You’ll reach your destination, and it’s going to be great! But for now, enjoy your journey. 

Love,

Me.